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ProudToBeKinky Podcast

Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner. “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?” Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you. Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.
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Nov 24, 2019

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! But it's time to say goodbye.

Stay kinky everyone!

 

Oct 21, 2019

///// SORRY ABOUT THE ECHO!!!! ///////

 

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Just Bakji this week. I talk about 3D printing, if it’s worth getting one to make kinky bits as well as the things I’ve made.

 

Links:

  • 3D Printer: http://tiny.cc/7kfuez
  • Plastic Filament: http://tiny.cc/2lfuez
  • Fusion360: http://tiny.cc/kqfuez
  • Cura: http://tiny.cc/1rfuez

  

PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again)

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 

Sep 30, 2019
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We talk about cunilingus! After Bakji read ‘She Comes First’ to learn more about give oral sex, we discuss what it’s really like from Floss’ perspective. 

 

‘She Comes First’ on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring-ebook/dp/B000FC1PRK

  

PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again)

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 



Sep 23, 2019
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We chat about the films, TV shows and websites that we saw when we were younger that helped shape our kinks. 

 

PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Sep 16, 2019

 

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WE'RE BACK! This week we talk about New and Old Relationship Energy... what is that? Well have a little listen and find out.

 

Here are some of the links we mentioned:

More Than Two: https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8

The article from Poly.Land: https://poly.land/2017/02/21/7-ways-keep-love-alive-make-old-relationship-feel-new/

 

 

PLEASE NOTE: We were unable to receive any emails to hello@proudtobekinky.com between 2nd July 2019 and 9th September 2019, really sorry. The email address is now working fine, please email again if you didn't get a reply.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 

Aug 1, 2019
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We talk about dynamics and BDSM, kind of like the roles between two people… it’s hard to explain really so just give it a little listen!

 

PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jul 2, 2019
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We continue with those questions that are designed to make someone fall in love. I think it worked!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jun 26, 2019
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We talk to Max Long & Kitty Delish again! Max brings his floggers, whips and paddles along and we talk all about impact play.  

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jun 16, 2019
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This week Floss asks me (Bakji) 36 questions designed to make ‘someone fall in love’. Listen to see if it worked!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jun 10, 2019
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I ask Floss the famous Proust Questions but don’t worry… we make them sexy and kinky. (And strip out the depressing ones!)  

 

Here are the questions: https://www.vanityfair.com/magazine/2000/01/proust-questionnaire

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jun 7, 2019
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In this mini-episode I Bakji discuss three kinky things I recently found out about. Those things are:

 

  1. Secret102 - A UK based kinky radio station - www.secret102.com
  2. Deviant Designs - Brilliant kinky contraptions - https://www.pornhub.com/model/deviant-designs
  3. SexToyCollective.com -  Design your own sex toys!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Jun 4, 2019
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I, Bakji, well and truly dominated Floss' botty last week for the first time in a long while. We discuss what it's like to be the bottom after a very long time without doing it.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

May 27, 2019
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  • This week’s sponsor > www.thesissykit.com

 

We talk about how kinky scenes and sessions can go wrong but how you shouldn’t let it ruin your overall kinky fun.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

May 20, 2019
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We talk to Dick Wound and his partner Lexie all about their various kinks and what they’ve been up to since the last time we spoke to them.

 

You can find out more about them here: https://www.offthecuffs.org

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

May 13, 2019

 

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We discuss if happiness really is the goal worth pursuing in a relationship and how it’s a nebulous term that doesn’t exact tell you how to be happy.

 

We talk about ways we make each other ‘happy’ by doing things we find genuinely exciting.  

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

May 7, 2019

 

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In this week's episode we explore a topic we discussed way back in episode 6, going to a Fetish Club. Since then we’ve been to quite a few more and we believe that if you’re into kink and you’ve never been then you’d have a great time a fetish club… but they seem a little scary if you’ve not been before.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

 

May 1, 2019

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This week’s sponsor: The Sissy Kit

 

We discuss what we like about bondage and the various ways of restraning your sexy partners. It’s a common kink but it’s one we all enjoy!

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 


We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Apr 25, 2019

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If monogamy and ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t work for you, then this week’s episode is something you may want to listen to.

 

We talk about the various other relationship models that may suit you if you're not into the idea of a standard relationship.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.


You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Apr 19, 2019

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Episode 100! We decided to celebrate and have a few drinks and talk about the original ethos of the podcast, which was all about the more social and interpersonal side of kink.

 

We also look back on our favorite moments on the podcast and a surprise guest pops up by the name of ‘iWiLLtIEUhARd’

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

 

You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Apr 14, 2019

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A listener emailed us recently to ask out advice on a long distance relationship. Whilst we live quite close to each other, we thought it would be a good subject to cover. Floss asked her Twitter followers what they do and we got some pretty good responses.

 

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

 

 

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.


You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Apr 8, 2019

*** WANNA CHAT? HERE’S THAT DISCORD LINK WE FORGOT TO MENTION!, >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****

Back in November 2017, we did a whole episode on Red Flags, what negative traits to look out for in a prospective play partner early on. Well this is the opposite, Green Flags are the positive things to look out for.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.


You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Apr 2, 2019

*** CHAT MY WILLY! OH AND HERE’S DISCORD, >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****

Life got the better of us and we ended up going seven weeks without doing any kink! This week we talk about getting back into it and the several sessions we’ve had recently.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.


You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Mar 27, 2019

*** I WANT MY, I WANT MY, I WANT MY DISORD CHAT... https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****

This week we talk about a recent article in The Metro about people's kinky bucket lists... only to find that all is not as it seems.

Then we discuss the things we'd like to do too.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Mar 21, 2019

*** DISCORD, YOU SAY??? WHAT’S STOPPING YOU???>>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****

Last weekend we went to Eroticon, we discuss all the talks we went to, all the vendors who were there and all the lovely people we met.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Mar 12, 2019

***WANT TO JOIN DISCORD??? HERE’S THAT LINK >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****


This week we have a two and half hour chat with Max Long & Kitty Delish about medical play, being a house Dom and being a decent and ethical person in the fetish scene.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.


You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

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