WE'RE BACK! This week we talk about New and Old Relationship Energy... what is that? Well have a little listen and find out.
Here are some of the links we mentioned:
More Than Two: https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8
The article from Poly.Land: https://poly.land/2017/02/21/7-ways-keep-love-alive-make-old-relationship-feel-new/
PLEASE NOTE: We were unable to receive any emails to hello@proudtobekinky.com between 2nd July 2019 and 9th September 2019, really sorry. The email address is now working fine, please email again if you didn't get a reply.
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We talk about dynamics and BDSM, kind of like the roles between two people… it’s hard to explain really so just give it a little listen!
PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK!
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We continue with those questions that are designed to make someone fall in love. I think it worked!
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We talk to Max Long & Kitty Delish again! Max brings his floggers, whips and paddles along and we talk all about impact play.
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This week Floss asks me (Bakji) 36 questions designed to make ‘someone fall in love’. Listen to see if it worked!
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I ask Floss the famous Proust Questions but don’t worry… we make them sexy and kinky. (And strip out the depressing ones!)
Here are the questions: https://www.vanityfair.com/magazine/2000/01/proust-questionnaire
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In this mini-episode I Bakji discuss three kinky things I recently found out about. Those things are:
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I, Bakji, well and truly dominated Floss' botty last week for the first time in a long while. We discuss what it's like to be the bottom after a very long time without doing it.
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We talk about how kinky scenes and sessions can go wrong but how you shouldn’t let it ruin your overall kinky fun.
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We talk to Dick Wound and his partner Lexie all about their various kinks and what they’ve been up to since the last time we spoke to them.
You can find out more about them here: https://www.offthecuffs.org
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We discuss if happiness really is the goal worth pursuing in a relationship and how it’s a nebulous term that doesn’t exact tell you how to be happy.
We talk about ways we make each other ‘happy’ by doing things we find genuinely exciting.
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In this week's episode we explore a topic we discussed way back in episode 6, going to a Fetish Club. Since then we’ve been to quite a few more and we believe that if you’re into kink and you’ve never been then you’d have a great time a fetish club… but they seem a little scary if you’ve not been before.
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This week’s sponsor: The Sissy Kit
We discuss what we like about bondage and the various ways of restraning your sexy partners. It’s a common kink but it’s one we all enjoy!
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If monogamy and ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t work for you, then this week’s episode is something you may want to listen to.
We talk about the various other relationship models that may suit you if you're not into the idea of a standard relationship.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
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Episode 100! We decided to celebrate and have a few drinks and talk about the original ethos of the podcast, which was all about the more social and interpersonal side of kink.
We also look back on our favorite moments on the podcast and a surprise guest pops up by the name of ‘iWiLLtIEUhARd’
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We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
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A listener emailed us recently to ask out advice on a long distance relationship. Whilst we live quite close to each other, we thought it would be a good subject to cover. Floss asked her Twitter followers what they do and we got some pretty good responses.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** WANNA CHAT? HERE’S THAT DISCORD LINK WE FORGOT TO MENTION!, >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Back in November 2017, we did a whole episode on Red Flags, what negative traits to look out for in a prospective play partner early on. Well this is the opposite, Green Flags are the positive things to look out for.
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We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** CHAT MY WILLY! OH AND HERE’S DISCORD, >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Life got the better of us and we ended up going seven weeks without doing any kink! This week we talk about getting back into it and the several sessions we’ve had recently.
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We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** I WANT MY, I WANT MY, I WANT MY DISORD CHAT... https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
This week we talk about a recent article in The Metro about people's kinky bucket lists... only to find that all is not as it seems.
Then we discuss the things we'd like to do too.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** DISCORD, YOU SAY??? WHAT’S STOPPING YOU???>>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Last weekend we went to Eroticon, we discuss all the talks we went to, all the vendors who were there and all the lovely people we met.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
***WANT TO JOIN DISCORD??? HERE’S THAT LINK >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
This week we have a two and half hour chat with Max Long & Kitty Delish about medical play, being a house Dom and being a decent and ethical person in the fetish scene.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
***DON'T FORGET THE DISCORD! >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Last week we asked our listeners if they have any questions and we got quite a few responses…. So this whole episode is answering those questions.
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss
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We start with a review of these ankle and wrist cuffs we got from Honour.co.uk
Wrist Cuffs: https://www.honour.co.uk/rubber-deluxe-padlock-wrist-cuffs.php#product-tabs
Ankle Cuffs: https://www.honour.co.uk/rubber-deluxe-padlock-ankle-cuffs.php
We also talk about our five favourite kinky places to shop, here are all the links to companies.
Bakji and Floss' Choices:
1) Libidex - www.libidex.com
2) Top To Bottom Leathers - www.top-to-bottom-leathers.co.uk
3) Meo - www.meo.de
4) MedFetUK - www.medfetuk.com
5) Bondra - www.bondara.co.uk
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** HERE IS THAT LINK TO DISCORD ! >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Since it was Valentine's Day this week, we thought we’d talk about love. We discuss the love languages and how we try to have the best relationship we can.
We also ask which fictional character would you most like to do kinky things with!
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.
*** WHAT IS THAT DISCORD YOU SPEAK OF??? HERE IT IS>>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****
Yet another femdom session! This week there's lots of talk of teasing and edging, as well as our favourate sexual urban myths. (Funny ones not depressing ones)
If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:
We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.
You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.