Even in established dynamics like ours, we still have ongoing conversations around negotiating scenes and consenting to activities we are happy to engage in.

In new dynamics this is crucial to creating a feeling of safety and trust with your partner, without which there is not much of a foundation to build on.

We discuss what consent looks like for us, what makes us decide consent is not being enthusiastically given and how you can ask for consent in a sexy way.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms:

• Twitter
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• Fetlife
• Floss’ Blog

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

This episode also see the return of our bonus section, now officially called ‘The After Bit’, please check out the full post ‘Boobs Behaving Badly’ we mention submitted by PixieHeart and thank you very much to Darn for his contribution too. If you have any stories for us, then get in touch, this week we talk about kinks that I totally made you say ‘No Way!’ But soon had you say ‘Yes! Yes! Yes!’.

Floss and Bakji are no strangers to talking about kink, but this week we are getting down and dirty with a discussion about sexual technique. What is it? Do we have it? And how does one improve it?

Some of the things we discuss in this episode are:

• Have you ever had a sexual technique used on you that was surprisingly good?
• How do you encourage your partner to learn new things without offending them?
• Do you think there ways to increase sexual pleasure that people often overlook?
• Do you have a favourite technique you like to use?
• Are there any good resources on sexual technique?

A lot of this episode is about our personal preferences and we encourage everyone to discover their own likes and dislikes. If you’ve got a go to move though that always seems to get sexy results then we’d love to hear about it.

If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms:

• Twitter
• Instagram
• Fetlife
• Floss’ Blog

We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast and Drinks with God. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.